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Phone sex

9/22/2016

By Wendy Williams  

For about five years, I have been doing professional phone sex. The other day, I was speaking afterwards with a caller and we got into the discussion of how phone sex has benefited him beyond just getting off. So I’d like to discuss some reasons why "phone sex" is a healthy and stimulating way for a little foreplay or experimenting without the actual sexual act.

Foreplay

I had always thought that foreplay over the phone was for people in long distance relationships or just to “get off” quickly. With technology options increasing and people being more open to sexuality, it has now become a great way to spice up a relationship. 

Talking dirty face-to-face can be very uncomfortable for many and this could be why they just don't do it. However, distance and the possibility of hiding behind the phone or a computer opens up your realm for being naughty. Chatting online also gives those spoken dirty ideas time to sink in for your partner while one of you is away. For example, you may say something suggestive over the phone that you have never done in person, but have often thought about, and in this way, plant that seed to grow in your partner’s mind, which you can act on when you’re together again!

I suggest you choose your phone times spontaneously so it makes it even hotter. Maybe do it as they are driving into work, at the gym, or in a meeting. I think it's so hot giving my partner a hard-on under his desk during a meeting that he can't get rid of because he’s thinking of me. Or perhaps he’s hiding in the shower at the gym or getting road-head because of our phone chat. I think mind stimulation is just as important as physical in a healthy sexual relationship.

Be sultry and start with a simple kiss, or be extra slutty and tell him how you will rip your clothes off when you see each other. If it's a new relationship or even just a quick get-off moment, then let all your sexual desires come out like word ejaculation. Get your partner to tell you which direction he wants you to take or ask questions. If you hear moaning or heavy breathing, then you know you are hitting the right areas. Also, make a mental note so when you see your partner in person, you know to explore that fantasy.

Phone sex can be as naughty or as timid as you want, but remember, this is a way to explore each of your fantasies and hopefully open up a new way of communication, which can lead to better sex.

Experimenting

Men who are into ladies like myself, but just can't bring themselves to take that first step to actually meeting a transgender woman, can turn to a phone sex line to talk about this fantasy. I can't tell you how many phone sex calls I've had that started out with, "I've always wanted to do this, but…" You have to love the "but" that comes after.

Porn has always helped feed into the surprise element when it comes to meeting a trans woman. The intense moment when she pulls up her skirt or you reach under it to feel that bulge and, OMG, he finds out she’s a transsexual. This seems to be the most talked about fantasy when I get these calls. In reality, it’s dangerous not to tell a guy you have a cock. However, for the fantasy element, it can be liberating for the guy who just wants to meet that woman at the club, grocery store, or at church. As long as guys know that this is a porn scenario much like the pizza or pool boy, then it can be fun to act out.

I also get a lot of married men who say they love their wives and have chosen not to cheat on them. So they turn to phone sex to have the stimulation when they feel the need, and to talk about it. In this way, we are a little like a psychologist who is there to help with your needs. I am not going to lie – knowing the wife is sleeping in the next room while I’m telling him how I'm going to shove my fat cock in his mouth or that the next time he is fucking her to imagine her pussy as my ass and really fuck it hard – really turns me on and makes me touch myself. 

I don't see anything wrong with a married guy verbally talking about this, perhaps because he doesn't think his wife would understand, or maybe he wants to have a threesome with a trans woman. The threesome fantasy is another common one, and shockingly, many admit to having had their wives fuck them with a strap-on before. Don't be nervous or ashamed to admit you are married. Embrace it and let's talk about it.

Many times, I have regular callers who say they finally, after years of calling me, had their first trans experience and used many things we talked about during our sessions. Whether it was how to go down on a transsexual or talking about the risks of bareback sex, I think our discussions make it easier for them the first time.

Embrace something new and enjoy your penis! We can go on and on about the benefits of phone sex, but why not just try it and see for yourself. 

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